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I live in a constant state of early 90s.
When college rock was good, and black people were still on TV.



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     Reasons to be in a polyamorous triad.

Time Out NY has an interview with a gay “throuple” discussing how they got together, why they’re together, what their relationship is like, and some of the criticisms they face.

Can I have this though?  Because that’s what I need.  I’m too anti-social for a one-on-one partnership forever, but another guy to lighten the load (in many ways) sounds perfect.

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10:33 am  •  24 July 2014  •   Let's talk about what you think.

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     I got stood up last night and then told I was “in my feelings.”

For the record, I am not now nor have I ever been “in my feelings” about someone I don’t know.  However, I do believe in certain universal standards of manners and decorum, so y’all let me know if I was overreacting as I was being stood up last night after trekking to Brooklyn in the rain after work.

(Yes.  I went to Brooklyn after work.  In the rain.  And he didn’t show, so you know I was tight.)

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10:44 am  •  16 July 2014  •   Let's talk about what you think.

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     Look at this photo. You ever see someone online you wanna meet for the sole purpose of finding out what their life is like?  I feel like he lives in a basement, parts his hair down the middle, and regularly waits in line at midnight for video game releases.

You ever see someone online you wanna meet for the sole purpose of finding out what their life is like?  I feel like he lives in a basement, parts his hair down the middle, and regularly waits in line at midnight for video game releases.

10:58 pm  •  7 June 2014  •   Let's talk about what you think.

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     Now sissy that walk.

I just lost about 10 minutes of my life watching this gif.  

Then I lost another 10 minutes of my life reflecting on my Fridays at work and how — when they’re slow — all I wanna do is look at butts on tumblr.

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1:37 pm  •  6 June 2014  •   Let's talk about what you think.

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     Now I remember why I quit OK Cupid…

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Oh right…NOW I remember why I quit OKC.  If I really felt like dealing with all those arbitrary and completely subjective demarcations between who’s cute and who’s not, I’d just go to Hell’s Kitchen and try striking up conversations in between Gay Rihanna Remix and Gay Lady Gaga Remix.

(That algorithm is broken anyway because the last two guys who messaged me looked like basement-dwelling mouth-breathers who stay on Reddit all day.  And the one before that looked like he had progeria and absolutely no social skills whatsoever.)

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2:05 pm  •  13 May 2014  •   Let's talk about what you think.

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     It gets even better…

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Just when you thought you had seen it all, the Internet gods give you a quick “No, you gon really learn today bitch.”

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9:46 pm  •  15 April 2014  •   Let's talk about what you think.

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     Today in gay white racists: Rape & “high tops.”

Racism is a really broad subject and there are so many ways to be a racist.  Today, we’re gonna swing from one extreme to the other, from a little Grindr flirtation I saw on Facebook to the Canadian tourist who got raped in Philadelphia.

Let’s start here:

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1:42 pm  •  13 April 2014  •   Let's talk about what you think.

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     Is he *really* attractive? Or….

illumahottie:

Is he attractive or is the hat making him look good? : A memoir

Well that’s a good start illumahottie, but we need to take it further.

Is he attractive, or is it the beard? : A self-study.

Is he attractive, or is his height confusing you? : A documentary.

Is he attractive, or did you see his tax return? : A Golddigger’s guide.

Is he attractive, or is the club closing in 15 min?  A thirsty treatise.

Is he attractive, or is he just white? : A Grindr exposé.

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6:31 pm  •  8 April 2014  •   Let's talk about what you think.

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