Rambling Wednesdays: Gay dating in the South versus New York City
For anyone who doesn’t know, I was born and raised in the South. I left some years ago though, before I really started having a gay social life (Read: before I moved somewhere with enough homosexuals to find ones I could have sex with.)
Let’s talk about some of these differences I’ve noticed when it comes to the gay network, Grindr, black guys, and dating in general.
7:01 pm • 6 February 2013 •
Gay Trendwatch: Posing next to the Holocaust Memorial for your Grindr pics.
So this is a thing that’s happening right now…Grindr Remembers, a whole website dedicated to cataloging photos of the Holocaust memorial on gay hookup apps.
Why are you the absolute worst ever?
3:12 pm • 5 February 2013 •
Go to this link.
Scruffy, Scruffier, Scruffiest: The New Look Is More Than Just a Fad
"I’d rather have a society full of bearded diaper changers than a society of clean-shaven war heroes. It is no coincidence that some of the worst regimes in history — the Nazis, the Italian fascists, etc. — prescribed beards. It is no coincidence that most powerful men in politics and church are clean-shaven."
Why are white gay men with extra hair (everywhere except the top of their heads) so obnoxious? I’m over scruff. Over beards. Over chest hair. Over this fake ideal of masculinity just because, through no fault or effort of your own, you have extra follicles on random parts of your body.
And you know this queen is somewhere belting Lady Gaga songs and scheduling his Super Bowl party around Beyonce’s halftime show because he’s never seen a whole football game. Oh but you’re so manly because there’s a rug on your face.
I’m shaving tomorrow.
8:48 pm • 30 January 2013 •
Pet peeve of the day: Gay white guys with a Shaniqua Complex.
This topic recently came up on Facebook and I thought I should dust off this old entry and remind you this shit is still not cute.
We all know them. Corny-ass gay white dudes from Nowhere, USA who think neck-swerving, lip-smacking, finger-wagging, and sass-giving is “fabulous” or entertaining.
3:14 pm • 10 January 2013 •
I really want a horse.
Not for like…actual riding or training purposes. Moreso for the picture-taking internet opportunities because there aren’t enough Fancy Gay Black Men Partaking in Dressage pictures out there in the world.
9:10 pm • 8 January 2013 •
The Church of England says gay men can be Bishops.
As long as they’re in civil partnerships. And not having any sex. So basically I think they meant lesbians.
(Well, sort of, because that Lesbian Bed Death is real and relevant in these streets/sheets.)
The Anglican Church of England last night announced that after years ofinternational debate, they will now allow gay men to become bishops. These gay men, however, must be in a civil partnership and also celibate.
"The House has confirmed that clergy in civil partnerships, and living in accordance with the teaching of the Church on human sexuality, can be considered as candidates for the episcopate," the Bishop of Norwich, Graham James, said in a statement.
"The House believed it would be unjust to exclude from consideration for the episcopate anyone seeking to live fully in conformity with the Church’s teaching on sexual ethics or other areas of personal life and discipline."
2:30 pm • 8 January 2013 •
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