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So let's talk about _____ .
     Read this quote.

I don’t know that it’s so much an issue of racism as a matter of too many gay men feeling entitled to tell others who they want to come to them; they replace the “about me” section of any app profile with a “what I want from you” section.
It’s pretty fucking annoying, actually:
NO FATS … NO FEMMES … ONLY HUNG … NO ONE OVER 25/30/40 … ONLY WHITE … ONLY LATINO … NO ASIAN … NO BLACK
Then there’s also:

BE INTERESTING … IMPRESS ME … HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE … HAVE $$$ … BE THIS, BE THAT …
Fuck you. Seriously, fuck you.
The best thing about those types of profiles is that those “About me” sections tell me everything I need to know: you’re stuck up, self-obsessed and too narrow-minded to see all the potential opportunities around you. And in five years, you’ll be on someone else’s “NO” list.
Also, you might be racist.

rewritingdavid just took me to church.




8:45 pm  •  8 May 2013  •   Let's talk about what you think.
| grindr| gay| lgbtq| dating| rewritingdavid|

     Are “whites only” & “no blks no azns” dating profiles actually racist?

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I like to make jokes about it because it’s such a *thing* that you can’t help but laugh.  To me, I just don’t understand it.  How can you not be attracted to any person who is not white?  How can you look at the wide variety of black men on this planet and say they are all uniformly unattractive?  I think that’s crazy and it makes me chuckle.  

But is it really racist?  Let’s look at it from both sides.

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12:57 pm  •  8 May 2013  •   Let's talk about what you think.
| lgbtq| gay| dating| grindr| racism| race| me| rambling wednesdays|

     Look at this photo.
Filed under “When taking masc/bro/I’m-not-into-the-gay-scene goes a little too far.”
Sashay.Away.

Filed under “When taking masc/bro/I’m-not-into-the-gay-scene goes a little too far.”

Sashay.
Away.

(Source: ohhellobitchpudding)




9:48 pm  •  6 May 2013  •   Let's talk about what you think.
| grindr| rupaul| rupaul's drag race|

     Look at this photo.
I’m really concerned about what kind of spice he’s referring to.  Is it curries, like Indian spice?  Or chilies, like Latin spice?  Or geriatric, like Old Spice?
COME ON KWEENS.  BE SPECIFIC WITH YOUR BIGOTRY.   GOSH.

I’m really concerned about what kind of spice he’s referring to.  Is it curries, like Indian spice?  Or chilies, like Latin spice?  Or geriatric, like Old Spice?

COME ON KWEENS.  BE SPECIFIC WITH YOUR BIGOTRY.   GOSH.

(Source: kimghappens, via foreveralone-lyguy)




11:54 am  •  5 May 2013  •   Let's talk about what you think.
| grindr| gay| racism| white people|

     Look at this photo.
Oh look, another Grindr knock off.
Hornet.
Just small pricks I’m guessing.

Oh look, another Grindr knock off.

Hornet.

Just small pricks I’m guessing.




5:08 pm  •  8 April 2013  •   Let's talk about what you think.
| grindr| gay| dating| LGBTQ|

     That one time when Anderson Cooper & Andy Cohen had each other starred on Grindr.

“sup?” 

“nmu?”

“top or bottom?” 

“btm u?” 

“same” 

::sad faces::




2:03 pm  •  2 April 2013  •   Let's talk about what you think.
| anderson cooper| andy cohen| LGBTQ| gay| grindr|

     Attn Gays: Condoms don’t protect you from meningitis.

Every few months or so, Grindr Culture introduces something new to the gay hookup scene in NYC and it’s never good.  This time, it’s meningitis, and you should probably go get vaccinated.

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8:31 am  •  12 March 2013  •   Let's talk about what you think.
| LGBTQ| nyc| gay| health| grindr| sex| news|

     Grindr for lesbians is called Brenda.

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Brenda though?  Is that the best lesbian name they could think off?  Did nobody in that marketing meeting propose “Scissr” or is that too much?  Because I think that’s dope.

Either way, I’m clearly downloading this, and not in that whole obnoxious straight girls who download Grindr to find gay bffs sort of way.  

I’ma get me a lezwifey.
Lesbians love alladis.




2:20 pm  •  27 February 2013  •   Let's talk about what you think.
| grindr| brenda| LGBTQ| lesbians| dating| gay|