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when you’re not sure if someone just called you “man” or “ma’am”

Um…especially when I’m not even trans.

I love my long hair.  So do other people.  But really though?  I’m not automatically a lady just because my head isn’t shaved.  I guess I should just walk around with my penis hanging out so people will know I’m a dude.

(Oh wait……………………………..that’s kind of what I do already.)

7:14 pm  •  8 May 2012  •   Let's talk about what you think.
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Around this time every year, I start wrestling with My Hair because it’s about to get hot.  A) Hair is hot and obnoxious in the summer.  B) Everybody goes into heat and gets boo’ed up with someone and being a dude with long hair seriously cuts into your dating options.

I cut a few inches off the other week but I always struggle with just shaving it all off.  I mean, I’ve had so much hair for so long, I can’t imagine myself totally bald, like none of my clothes would look right and I would just be Big Gay Face on blast with no kind of cover.  Plus, what if I hate it like I did the last time I shaved my head and then it never grows back right?

Decisions decisions…

3:04 pm  •  16 April 2012  •   Let's talk about what you think.
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Jon Snow Game of Thrones Husband Material Kit Harrington.

6:30 pm  •  11 April 2012  •   Let's talk about what you think.
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Sometimes you need pigtails.

4:06 pm  •  28 March 2012  •   Let's talk about what you think.
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Yusuf and I were not drunk at all in this picture.  Not at all.

3:10 pm  •  19 March 2012  •   Let's talk about what you think.
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Pale, blonde Husband Material with long hair.

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1:35 pm  •  2 March 2012  •   Let's talk about what you think.
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I got home at 6am.
Slept until 4 this afternoon.
Ate half of a chicken. 
Went back to sleep.
And woke up again at 630.

This is what bedhead hungover lazy Rafi looks like. 

8:17 pm  •  17 December 2011  •   Let's talk about what you think.
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Brett Gleason is still making my palms sweat.  Husband Material.

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5:37 pm  •  26 October 2011  •   Let's talk about what you think.
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